The four of us made a last trip to Jane Austen's house in Chawton, the photos in this blog are all from our last visit to Jane's.
I loved being there with Mike and the boys.
Writing with quills.
Dark of the Moon.
Our last days included nearly having our car stolen by a man posing as a buyer. It ended in a mad dash for our car, a little scary. We are sworn off using autotrader.com! Ask Mike to tell you the story.
Photo by Michael.
Photo by Michael.
Photo by Michael.
Walking with monkey boys wears one out.
Jane's neighbors.
Graves of Jane's mother and sister.
While we visited this graveyard an American man frightened us by oversharing details from his life...his story ended thus, "She looks just like my dad but with BOOBS!"
After we visited the house we went for a short walk, I gathered a stone Jane may have trodden. It's in my pocket right now as I write from Greer, AZ.
Our days ended with a few goodbye dinners, very hard to leave our new best friends.
This is a fairly long and shakey video of our walk through a pasture filled with lambs and ewes.
Baby lambs are intoxicating.
Considering my original goals of getting my kids to try new foods and discovering the meaning of life, I think it went ok.
Michael amazed me eating new foods. He was the boy who would eat about 5 different things and I never would have imagined he could enjoy mussels, but he did!! On our journeys he tried cheeses in France, Lebanese food in Greece, beer in Belgium, pizza in Italy, soups, beans, pies in England. I am so proud of my man for plunging into our dream and making more of it than we could.
I discovered that Dominic is cautious and careful and needs to feel safe. It was hard to know this about him before we launched away from our safe and secure life. Blankey traveled everywhere we did. He was brave and himself and figured out how to make it all work. I am hugely proud of him. Plus he tried all sorts of new foods, including mussels, which he has decided he doesn't care for in pasta.
As far as the meaning of life I did figure out a few things. First of all, the pursuit of happiness is not the way to get happy. Secondly, I am needy, and so is everyone else and that is a good thing. Thirdly, I am filled with greed, and feeding that monster is akin to the pursuit of happiness. I will aim to steer away from filling my greed hole. And yet there is room in my life for more love and more friends and more adventure.
Leaving our loved ones, our home town and our patio furniture behind and crashing on the shores of England was the best. It was much harder than I imagined and so much more exciting, love filled and perfect than I ever dreamed.
